Brother, five questions.
If you understood that the Earth created you, that you received your strong body from nature — would you live as you have until now?
If you did not have to work and earn for a woman, for culture, for family — would you be equally capable of destroying other men?
If 1 and 2 did not exist — would any rivalry, fighting, violence exist between men? If it existed — would it exist to the same degree?
The more obligations you have toward a woman — does the need for money increase or decrease?
The more your value is in a woman — do you give more or less of yourself?
If you answered according to what you feel — you see the pattern. If you see the pattern — you see that it is not yours. It entered you just as it entered everyone before you — through parents, upbringing, religion, culture. Generation after generation.